{"id":395,"date":"2015-04-16T21:35:35","date_gmt":"2015-04-17T01:35:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.adviceicouldhaveusedyesterday.com\/?p=395"},"modified":"2015-05-12T10:51:39","modified_gmt":"2015-05-12T14:51:39","slug":"steal-some-ideas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.adviceicouldhaveusedyesterday.com\/?p=395","title":{"rendered":"Steal some ideas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My colleague recently started a blog called &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.threethingsilikeabout.com\/\">Three things I like about<\/a>&#8230;&#8221; It&#8217;s brilliant: the concept is immediately recognizable and the theme is sufficiently broad.<\/p>\n<p>I like the idea. In fact, I like it so much that I&#8217;m going to steal it. Welcome to a post called, &#8220;Three things I like about&#8230; Ripping other people off.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>No, just kidding. I wouldn&#8217;t do that. I&#8217;d actually make it, &#8220;Three things I like about&#8230; today.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>More positive, no?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.adviceicouldhaveusedyesterday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/barbados.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-396 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.adviceicouldhaveusedyesterday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/barbados.jpg?resize=268%2C300\" alt=\"barbados\" width=\"268\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.adviceicouldhaveusedyesterday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/barbados.jpg?resize=268%2C300&amp;ssl=1 268w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.adviceicouldhaveusedyesterday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/barbados.jpg?resize=916%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 916w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.adviceicouldhaveusedyesterday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/barbados.jpg?w=1146&amp;ssl=1 1146w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 268px) 100vw, 268px\" \/><\/a>1. Now is as good a time as any to announce that I&#8217;m in Barbados. I did an outstanding job of not preparing for this trip in any way, and I&#8217;m looking forward to spending the next six days sorting that out as I go.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, one of the few things I did before I departed was leave a message on my parents&#8217; answering machine telling them I was traveling. If I&#8217;m being honest, it had less to do with informing them of my plans and more about seeing what my dad had to say about Barbados.<\/p>\n<p>I was particularly curious because several years ago when I was heading to the Dominican Republic with a group of friends, he got absolutely frantic.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The Dominican Republic?!&#8221; he yelled across the table at a restaurant in Chinatown. &#8220;I got two words for you: <em>Nancy<\/em>. <em>Holiday<\/em>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You mean Natalee Holloway,&#8221; I replied. &#8220;And that was Aruba.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Those details aside, he was absolutely convinced that any trip to the Caribbean would end in disaster &#8211; a point that I doubted had changed much in the past decade.<\/p>\n<p>I was right.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Barbados?! Is that by Aruba!?&#8221; he asked.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Good,&#8221; he replied. &#8220;Hey! Are you going to do any snorkeling there?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And <em>that<\/em>\u00a0was actually my second guess of what he would have to say. So predictable.<\/p>\n<p>2. So today I watched a movie. That&#8217;s a big deal because the last thing I saw &#8211; in the theater or otherwise &#8211; was American Hustle. With the exception of the scene where Amy Adams dances a really convincing disco, I&#8217;d say that movie was a big waste of 3 hours and $15 &#8211; and that&#8217;s coming from the lady who pays twice as much each week to learn how to climb drapery with her knees.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway. Selma. That&#8217;s what I watched on the plane. Twice, actually. And while I was embarrassed to cry through a good portion of it the first time, I didn&#8217;t feel an ounce of shame losing it on the second go.<\/p>\n<p>That movie is excellent. And it&#8217;s important. Everyone should see it.<\/p>\n<p>(Everyone probably already has, but when have I ever let the facts get in the way of some unsolicited advice before?<\/p>\n<p>3. Today is one of the handful of days each year that I have access to a patio with an oceanfront view &#8211; and my first order of business was walking directly into the sliding glass door leading to it.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re all so predictable, aren&#8217;t we?<\/p>\n<p><em>Here&#8217;s an idea worth stealing: subscribe to this blog! Just enter your email address in the box on the top right for twice a week updates.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My colleague recently started a blog called &#8220;Three things I like about&#8230;&#8221; It&#8217;s brilliant: the concept is immediately recognizable and the theme is sufficiently broad. I like the idea. In fact, I like it so much that I&#8217;m going to steal it. 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